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WHEN DOES THE VOICE OF THE CHILD CARRY WEIGHT?

It is a quirk of most matters related to minor children, especially when these are acrimonious, that a decision has to be made as to what is in the best interests of a minor child based on what the parents are seeking rather than what the child may want.

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THE ROLE OF THE FAMILY ADVOCATE

The Family Advocate is an unbiased family law specialist and advisor to the court in cases of legal disputes over custody and parental rights.  The Family Advocate assists members of a family to reach an agreement on disputed issues of custody, access and guardianship.  If the parties are unable

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How to Recognise If You Are in a Toxic Relationship

If you’re in an abusive relationship (physical or emotional), you know it’s toxic. Maybe not in the beginning, but eventually. And you may minimize it. You may struggle to leave. But you know there is something wrong: There is no doubt that the relationship is unhealthy.  But what if

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IS YOUR EX TURNING YOUR CHILD AGAINST YOU

Divorce can be frightening for children because the family structure changes dramatically. It is a change that they have no control over, and it can lead to them feeling extremely overwhelmed.  It is for this reason that parents going through this process should foremost place their child or children’s

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CHOOSING YOUR ATTORNEY TEAM WISELY

At one point or another, many people find themselves in a situation where they’re in need of the services of a good Attorney. Whether it’s handling a real estate transaction, setting up a business, or dealing with a family law issue, there are a vast number of situations where

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DEATH DURING DIVORCE : WHAT HAPPENS NEXT?

What happens during a divorce if one of the spouses dies before the divorce is finalised? This depends on several factors, principally: what does their last will and testament say, what was the matrimonial property regime that governed the marriage, and had a settlement agreement already been completed between

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SURVIVING A HIGH CONFLICT DIVORCE

Getting through a divorce can be extremely trying, even when both parties are doing their best to cooperate. In cases in which one party has a high-conflict personality, divorce can go from difficult to disaster rather quickly, as someone such as this tends to exhibit extreme behaviours, has lots

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The Role of Sex in Marriage and Divorce

Sex for many couples is an important part of the relationship, but remains a difficult topic of conversation, particularly given that there are a number of different views about it and its role by many institutions such as on issues like sex before marriage, birth control, sex being only

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DIVORCES IN SOUTH AFRICA ARE SURGING – FROM MERRY CHRISTMAS TO MARRIED NO MORE

Divorces in South Africa Surge

After months of being forced to stay in constant and close proximity with loved ones as a result of the lockdown regulations, many people have reached their breaking point, and the stress (financial and otherwise) brought on by the pandemic, is expected to have a marked impact on South

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THE DOS AND DON’TS OF HANDLING BOUNDARIES POST-DIVORCE

After a divorce, the two biggest challenges are setting new boundaries with your ex-spouse and balancing grieving with moving forward with your life. Communicating and having to deal with your ex-spouse after you have divorced is a necessity, especially when the parties have had children together. In order for

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