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About Us

Benita Ardenbaum Founder

NO ORDINARY FAMILY LAWYER

Benita is a senior attorney with over 27 years of experience in Family LawDivorce Law, and Personal Law. She is a member of the Legal Practice Council and is admitted to appear in the High Court of South Africa. Benita has presented many workshops on family law and regularly attends International Family Law conferences around the world. Benita started her career as a prosecutor for the Department of Justice in KwaZulu-Natal where she gained extensive and valuable experience as a strategic litigator. Benita left the Department of Justice and started her own family law firm as she saw an opportunity to improve the way family law firms work with clients by providing an integrative and client centred approach as opposed to a one-dimensional approach to family law.

In addition to her extensive experience in litigation Benita is also well known for her negotiation and mediation skills and has successfully resolved many acrimonious divorces and family law matters. Benita has an intricate understanding of human behaviour and is committed to assisting her clients to take charge of their lives  and to empower them through an often traumatic process. Benita has a special interest in children and is a strong advocate for children’s rights. Benita has a large international practice and specialises in international divorce law, cross border child abduction, child relocation to other countries and reciprocal enforcement of maintenance for children and spouses, domestic violence and other areas of personal law.

"You Are One Decision Away From A Totally Different 
Life Filled With Equality And Victory." 

“Divorce is emotional let us guide you to a rational
settlement without irrational hostility!”

01

Empower

At Benita Ardenbaum Attorneys, our goal is to empower our clients financially, legally, and otherwise through cooperation, support, and the sharing of knowledge.

Empowerment is always on the horizon for those who seek it. Ultimately, participating in meaningful, truthful exchanges and pursuing passions can give you the fuel and community you need to live your fully empowered self.

02

Protect

Our Attorneys show both strength and empathy as we protect the future for our clients and their loved ones. Our priority is to safeguard our client’s interests by protecting what matters most to them.

True emotional freedom requires people to grow and evolve through the pain. Once they do, they can step more confidently into the next chapter of their life.

03

Justice

Coming to terms with divorce isn’t easy. It requires a lot of soul-searching and hard work. 

It means turning inward and doing the tough work of processing your emotions—really feeling it all—the anger, the grief, the hurt, the depression, — and then letting go of those emotions. It means accepting that your marriage ended in whatever manner it did and finding meaning from the experience. 

Who we are

A SPECIALIST FAMILY LAW FIRM

Central to the firm’s values and culture is to understand what is important to you, the client, and to create a tailor-made strategy to help you achieve an outcome that is favourable to you.

We understand that the legal process can often be stressful, daunting, confusing and over-whelming. In order to alleviate the stress of divorce or a family dispute, we work closely with our clients and approach each case with care, discretion, commitment and dedication. The core belief within our firm is that open communication with our clients is paramount, and we seek to address each individual’s unique financial, emotional and legal needs by guiding and supporting them throughout the process.

No two clients are the same and there are those who prefer to avoid the stress and expense of litigation in court. We strive to assist our clients to reach favourable outcomes to conflict situations by means of alternative dispute-resolution methods such as mediation, negotiation and principles based on Collaborative Law. Where cases cannot be resolved amicably the firm is equipped to litigate in court to protect a client’s legal rights by means of the adoption of strategic and effective planning, preparation and execution.

Communication is key

Client based service

Benita Ardenbaum Attorney are passionate about meeting their client’s needs and nurturing a genuine and transparent relationship with their client’s. Personal care of each one of our client’s is of paramount importance to us. The building
and nurturing of our client relationships is long-lasting, even after the client’s mandate has ended. 

Our team understands that our client’s want honest, sound and practical legal advice, based on our extensive knowledge of family law. We strive to ensure that we deliver an exceptional experience which will not only attract new clients, but whenever necessary, assist previous loyal client’s. In delivering professional services to our client’s they are entrusting us with their future which is the foundation of our success.

Client satisfaction
98%
Success Rate
99%
Execution
100%

get to know each other

Benita Ardenbaum Attorneys prides itself on the specialist team of family law attorneys who are there to help families and individuals through hard times. With Benita Ardenbaum at the helm of the firm, she has a wealth of experience in family law both locally and internationally.

Each member of our team is committed to providing our client’s with exceptional advice aimed at achieving successful results. Our team has a combined background of impressive achievements and qualifications as well as a commitment to professional excellence and client services.

Understanding your rights

It is important to obtain the correct legal advice when divorcing so that you have a comprehensive understanding of your rights. Understanding your rights is far-reaching as a divorce incorporates numerous facets which include the division of assets according to your marriage regime, maintenance for the minor children and the spouse, and the incorporation of a parenting plan. In some cases, where there has been domestic violence or abuse, whether it be by a spouse or third party, we can assist in the process to obtain a protection order.

Understanding your rights does not only include knowing your rights in a divorce action it transcends to unmarried fathers rights and their pursuit of parental rights, laws pertaining to international divorces, and the rights of parents of abduction children.

Determining your goals

When we are faced with a difficult and emotional situation, it is easy to get discouraged and lose hope. Hope is needed to find happiness and peace during times that might otherwise lead us to become disheartened.

Our Attorneys are directly invested in determining our client’s goals. By having clear goals, it enables us to know precisely what our client’s want to achieve. Our aim is to then plan for what our client’s ideal outcome would be and to identify the essential elements required to fulfil our client’s desired end result.

"You Are One Decision Away From A Totally Different Life Filled With Equality And Victory."

“Divorce is emotional let us guide you to a rational
settlement without irrational hostility!”

Learn About
Our Attorneys

Benita Ardenbaum

Director and Founder

Benita Ardenbaum

Benita Ardenbaum is the director and founder of Benita Ardenbaum Attorneys. Benita is passionate about family law and has worked in this field for 30 years. Benita provides an integrative and client centred approach to family law. Benita's expertise includes being able to take complex disputes, simplify them and provide a strategy to resolve them. She is a qualified mediator and has extensive experience in litigation.

Benita has an established international practise. Benita is a member of the international Academy of Family Lawyers (IAFL). Benita has extensive experience in South African and International Divorces including complex financial divorces and divorces where there are disputes relating to children.

Jessica Gooding

Attorney and Conveyancer

Jessica Gooding

Jessica Gooding graduated with a Bachelor of Laws from the University of KwaZulu – Natal in June 2014, and was admitted as an Attorney of the High Court on 23 September 2016.

Jessica has a passion for family law and deals with all matters pertaining to: divorce, care and contact, parental rights and responsibilities, children’s rights and maintenance enquiries.

She is compassionate, driven and a persistent litigator who is sensitive to her client’s needs while dedicated to fervently advocating for their interests and providing practical legal solutions.

Kate Bailey - hill

Attorney and Solicitor

Kate Bailey - Hill

Kate is a highly professional and experienced Attorney and Solicitor of England and Wales. She is a strong advocate for mediation and is a member of the South African Association of Mediators (SAAM).

Kate’s passion for family and children is a pinnacle strength which drives her to deliver appropriate legal solutions for her client’s. Kate’s expertise ranges from matters of divorce, maintenance, parental rights and responsibilities, domestic violence and care and contact. Having two children of her own, Kate’s caring and compassionate nature ensures that her focus is always on the best interests of the child.

Thandokazi Bangani

Attorney

Thandokazi Bangani

Thandokazi is a driven and dedicated young woman from East London who obtained a Bachelor of Law Degree. Having completed her articles at a law firm in Pietermaritzburg, where she was in the general litigation department, she discovered her passion and love for family law and joined our team in 2023 as an Attorney.

Her biggest motivation and source of happiness is knowing that she has an opportunity to assist clients in bettering their lives while being surrounded by a team of ambitious women. Thandokazi prides herself in her ability to rise up to every occasion and task, whilst also looking after the best interest of the client.

Vishali Mariemuthu

Senior Paralegal

Vishali Mariemuthu

With over 20 years in the legal and marketing sectors, I have evolved both professionally and personally, thanks to excellent teams and mentors. My career began with Senior Counsel, shaping my foundation in legal and business arenas. I believe experience is defined by building lasting relationships in an environment that fosters growth and shared knowledge. I am excited to join the BA team, whose commitment to professional excellence and sincere approach resonates with me.

Zuzile Chono

Attorney

Zuzile Chono

Zuzile holds a Bachelor of Arts and a Bachelor of Laws from the University of KwaZulu-Natal, graduating in 2019, and was admitted as an Attorney of the High Court in February 2023.

Her passion for family law, developed during her articles, focuses on children's court, maintenance, domestic violence, and divorce cases. Known for her compassion, dedication, and leadership, Zuzile's role as the eldest sibling has sharpened her advocacy skills. She is committed to positively impacting her clients' lives with excellence and client satisfaction.

Saihil Bechan

Attorney

Saihil Bechan

Saihil is a dedicated attorney specializing in family and commercial law, where he navigates high emotions and complex legal issues with a sensitive, strategic approach. Committed to personalized, professional service, he always prioritizes his clients' best interests. Saihil earned his LLB from the University of the Free State in 2018 and practised in Pietermaritzburg before joining our team in May 2024.

He lives by the quote, "Every problem contains within itself the seeds of its own solution," which inspires his critical thinking and resilience.

Zeenat Abdool Kalik

Front House Executive

Zeenat Abdool Kalik

I believe that service excellence defines and includes appreciation for opportunities and growth, and I strongly believe that one’s words can express who they are in their own way.

I therefore always practice a happy and welcoming disposition to all clients. With more than 10 years of experience as a front office executive I understand the importance of being the “first contact” to clients and together with my love for working with people, I practice this both personally and professionally.

Taysha Reddy

Accountant

Taysha Reddy

With a BCom Finance degree and six years as a Legal Bookkeeper, I offer a strong understanding of attorneys' trust and investment accounts. My commitment to integrity, transparency, and strong analytical skills has ensured accurate financial records and efficient legal financial operations. I'm eager to contribute to the success of your esteemed firm.