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LEGAL SEPARATION AGREEMENTS IN SOUTH AFRICA

South African law does not specifically provide for a Legal Separation for married couples. In the eyes of the Law, parties are either married or divorced. There is no in-between status. While there is no specific concept of Legal Separation, it does not mean that a married couple cannot

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Amicable Separation vs. Lengthy Legal Battle Divorce Lawyer South Africa

AMICABLE END TO YOUR MARRIAGE OR LENGTHY LEGAL BATTLE

Nearly half of all marriages in South Africa end in divorce. Divorce need not be bitter or erupt into a war. Unfortunately, though, in many divorces, spouses turn what could be an amicable end to their marriage into an emotionally difficult and expensive legal battle by allowing their anger,

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FORMALITIES FOR A MARRIAGE IN SOUTH AFRICA

Marriage is defined as a formal union and social and legal contract between two individuals that unites their lives legally, economically, and emotionally. Civil marriages, same-sex marriages, customary marriages and religious marriages are protected by the law. South Africa does not recognise a common law wife or husband. The

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Division of Joint Estate in Divorce Benita Ardenbaum Divorce Lawyers South Africa

DIVISION OF A JOINT ESTATE IN A DIVORCE

The common misconception made by parties in a divorce action based on a marriage in community of property is that the Court will decide on how the division of the property will take place, i.e. which party will remain owner of the immovable property or in most cases the

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How To Survive a High Conflict Divorce

MEDIATION AND DEALING WITH HIGH CONFLICT PEOPLE

Mediation involves a thorough discussion of what each side’s point of view is and what has happened in the past. High-conflict people, because of their self-sabotaging personalities, often make their own problems worse by blaming others, taking an all-or-nothing approach, having unmanaged emotions and resorting to extreme behaviours, which

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SURVIVING EMOTIONALLY DURING A DIVORCE

Divorce is generally a stressful and unsettling event. At minimum, a major relationship is ending, all sorts of routines are upset, and in the midst of the stress of transition there are legal hoops to jump through before things can be resolved. Add in the volatile emotions that are

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TELLING YOUR CHILDREN THAT YOU’RE GETTING DIVORCED 2

One of the most difficult, painful conversations you will ever face is talking to your kids about your plan to divorce. When you know that you will be separating or divorcing, it is important to talk to your kids before they hear it from someone else. Imagine how upsetting

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INTRODUCING A NEW PARTNER TO YOUR CHILDREN

Introducing a new partner to your children can be daunting: there are life-changing implications for all involved. The fallout from introducing your children too quickly to a new love interest can be disastrous. It can cause anguish for everyone, especially your children who may be holding onto the idea

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