All your actions in the divorce should set a positive example to teach your children about how to behave responsibly in the future and during conflict situations. Approach the divorce in a mature manner, separate the personal issues between you and your spouse from what the children need, and always treat your spouse with respect. Even if your spouse behaves badly, your children need to learn from you what the appropriate and healthy approach is to deal with conflict.
Author: Murray Taylor
For decades, women in pre-2000 customary marriages were denied ownership of family property, their contributions invisible in the eyes of the law. The Gumede case changed that. By declaring these old rules unconstitutional, the Constitutional Court ensured that wives like Mrs Elizabeth Gumede are recognised as equal owners of the homes and assets they helped build. This landmark ruling isn’t just legal precedent—it’s a victory for fairness, dignity, and the human heart at the centre of family law.
Entering a customary law marriage is an act of love, culture and deep personal commitment. Yet without proper legal recognition, that meaningful union can leave you exposed when it matters most. This article unpacks the legal realities behind customary marriages in South Africa, from consent and registration to property and inheritance rights, so you can protect both your traditions and your future.
Divorce is never an easy decision. It affects far more than your marital status; it touches your emotions, family, and overall well-being.
Divorce is never an easy decision. It affects far more than your marital status; it touches your emotions, family, and overall well-being.
